Is pretty much how I feel again today. Perhaps this explains something ...
JD: "I liked you better before we had a baby."
And 99% of me wanted to just say of course, I wasn't over-tired, I had more time for you, we had adult conversations and I had work every day, I did a better (but still barely passable) job of keeping the apartment in order and cooking occasionally ... but there's still that part of me that wanted to ask if he isn't going to appreciate that I am caring for a baby?
Of course, he realizes that I'm pissed and has been apologizing non-stop, but I'm not sure that makes it less true.
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Ahhh, marriage. We've had, in my opinion, more than our fair share of comments such as this during our short marriage. I'm sorry. I know it hurts and really just ticks you off. I would imagine he'll feel differently in a few weeks.
Those first few weeks are rotten, aren't they? You're both overwhelmed and sleep-deprived and (if you're anything like the Boy and I) wondering why you ever thought you could handle being parents.
I promise, things do get better and easier. I seem to recall 10-12 weeks being the magical turning point. Hang in there!
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